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We welcome surrogates into a supportive sisterhood of advocates who walk alongside you through the process of bringing light into someone’s life. With COSTA, you get the support of our team and so much more. You’ll meet like-minded surrogates who can become lifelong friends. You’ll have the support of an active, private surrogate forum. And you’ll be invited to participate in an all-expense-paid annual weekend retreat for all members of our surrogate community.
Once a Surrogate applies online, an extensive interview and consultation is scheduled to determine eligibility and discuss the surrogacy process.
In this phase, the Surrogate undergoes a psychological evaluation as part of the preliminary screening.
Once the Surrogate has passed all preliminary screening, her profile will become active and published in the database, where Intended Parents will be able to view her profile.
Once mutually interested, we will facilitate an in-person or online meeting between the Intended Parents and Surrogate to determine compatibility.
If both parties wish to move forward after the meeting, the match will become official and coordination with the IVF clinic will begin.
The Surrogate and her partner (if applicable) will undergo a medical screening appointment at the Intended Parents’ IVF clinic to determine if the Surrogate has any issues that would preclude her from being a Surrogate.
We consider the type of relationship that the Intended Parents and the Surrogate are looking for.
Since surrogacy is a long process, it’s important that the Intended Parents and the Surrogate are compatible.
Locale can play an important role in facilitating good relationships between Surrogates and Intended Parents.
We believe that each match is unique, and we’re happy to facilitate special requests if all parties are in accord.
It’s crucial that the Surrogate and Intended Parents have the same expectations about timing.
The health risks are very similar to a normal pregnancy, but it is best to speak with your personal OB/GYN.
This will depend entirely on you and the Intended Parent(s). Some Surrogates maintain a very close relationship, while others have no contact after the birth. It is imperative to express your expectations prior to being matched.
Absolutely!
No! The Intended Parents will pay for all fees and costs related to the cycle. If you require specific testing (or retesting) directly related to your own health outside of the normal Surrogate screening process in order to clear you to proceed with a surrogacy cycle, you may be responsible for those costs.